She Was a Friend of Mine

Wendi Winters was one of the five journalists murdered at The Capital, Annapolis, Maryland.

I was driving home when another reporter was being interviewed and he mentioned Wendi’s name. I knew it had to be her: she moved from Montclair to Annapolis around twenty years ago.

We worked together on PTA stuff and I thought she was great: very smart, funny, stylish and substantial. We kept in touch after she moved but I hadn’t heard from her in a while.

I have spent today thinking about men and guns. Why did she have to be there when that maniac walked in? 65 years old with four kids and a good life: gone.

Why, why, why?

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35 responses to “She Was a Friend of Mine”

  1. lynn__ says :

    So sorry to hear about your friend…

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  2. Leonie Andrews says :

    There are no answers. So awful to hear about your friend.

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  3. Carol says :

    I’m so very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend who was such a good woman. These things will never make sense. Hugs. 💖

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  4. Olga says :

    Very saddening news. 😦

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  5. Jodi says :

    So sorry! So sad……

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  6. memadtwo says :

    Thanks all. I wasn’t sure if I should post this. I wanted to honor her somehow.

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  7. memadtwo says :

    Oh Nina…yes, this is just right, to honor and remember her. (K)

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  8. merrildsmith says :

    Oh gosh. I couldn’t “like” this. I was so upset when I heard about this, but how much more horrible to know one of the reporters killed. I’m so sorry.

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  9. Betty Hayes Albright says :

    Nina, I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend. Such a tragic, senseless thing….

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  10. Suzanne says :

    What a terrible story. I feel for you and all those who have effected by this senseless act of violence. I really hope the USA finds a way to change gun laws.

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  11. davisbrotherlylove says :

    So sorry, Nina. Do did your friend a great honor. There are no answers.
    Take care of yourself.
    j

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  12. annell4 says :

    I am sorry to read this.

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  13. Evelyn Flint says :

    A tragic loss…

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  14. A Pondering Mind says :

    I am sorry for the loss of your friend…

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  15. Sharon Mann says :

    Thank you for honoring your dear friend Wendi through your post Nina. Our country needs a resolution to all of this senseless violence.

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  16. rivrvlogr says :

    Moving forward, we try to believe there is no sense in violence, yet minds continue to find new reasons for exercising it.

    And lives continue to be lost.

    Absolutely senseless.

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  17. Janice says :

    I like that you honour this friend/woman/ reporter. Merril says exactly what I feel. There was no good reason for this and far too many wrong ones.

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  18. Jill Kuhn says :

    Sorry for the loss of your friend! ❤️ Sending hugs…

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  19. kestrelart says :

    I am so sorry for your loss. There is so much violence and it creates more fear and violence. How do we break the cycle? I wish I knew.

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  20. As much cake as you want says :

    I’m so sorry. This is heartbreaking – again. What will it take for things to change?

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  21. jmlandin says :

    Thank you for sharing this.

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  22. Dave Kingsbury says :

    A fitting tribute to your friend. Sad and senseless.

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  23. Claudia McGill says :

    Some things make no sense. I am so sorry for your loss. Your friend sounds like she added to the world and her absence will be felt.

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  24. sheldonk2014 says :

    Its an unfortunate how quickly mind sets change it wasn’t that long ago that a man with a gun was unheard of now its a common everyday occurrence………life is a web we weave as survival is more for the spider now than it use to be
    As Sheldon Always

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  25. Melba Christie at Poemattic says :

    Sorry for the loss of your friend. It is senseless and unfortunately nothing is being done.

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  26. sheldonk2014 says :

    I have not seen you guys in a moon age I know you’ve dropped by but I’ve been somewhere doing god knows…….how ate you both……I do hope all is well and kefer your not over working at work as sheldon always

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