Gathering (Plaza Jewish Community Chapel/Thursday Doors)
the harvest of your essence is present
not merely as solemn sentences of remembrance–
but it endures in stories, in invisible gifts–
the connecting threads that weave narratives–
you have worn them well–patterns of reciprocity
that continue to build community–
multiplied by those you have touched–
manifested by acts, words, trust—
you always held a hand out, confirming
we had meaning—not only deserving
of your attention, but integral to all creation–
you opened a place in the circle. an invitation
to continue what you have passed on–
a legacy of open-heartedness, a way to belong
I’ve attended three memorial services at Plaza Jewish Community Chapel. One was for a teacher and vice principal of my daughters’ elementary school; one was for the mother of one of my daughter’s softball teammates; and the third was for a former neighbor from the building where I lived the longest, the one that was closest to a permanent home. All were, in their own way, special–and the presence of a wide cross-section of people from various segments of the Upper West Side community reflected that.
The only architectural history I could find about the building was its date of construction: 1910. But the organization itself has a wonderful calling: it’s the only non-profit funeral chapel in New York City. Here’s the mission statement:
Plaza Jewish Community Chapel is a not for profit corporation governed by an unpaid Board of Directors that includes rabbis from all of the major denominations, representatives of Jewish social service agencies, individuals who serve as lay leaders in synagogues and Jewish communal organizations. Our mission is to ensure that every member of the Jewish Community receives a dignified and respectful Jewish funeral; to lower the high cost of funerals by eliminating the profit motive and commercialism so often associated with the funeral industry; and to provide appropriate connections to Jewish communal resources that the bereaved may need to cope with emotional or practical problems.
The front door is not fancy, but I’ve always liked the geometry of the building itself, and the decorative windows. And it’s lovely inside. I’m glad that these three wonderful humans were remembered in a space whose values reflect the way they lived their lives.
My poem is in slant rhymed couplets for Muri’s Scavenger hunt and for the W3 prompt this week from Suzette: Compose a poem on the theme of: What ‘harvest’ means to you.
And for Colleen’s Tanka Tuesday, since harvest is also a fall kigo word, a senryu.
how does one harvest
a life? what can be passed on?–
the connecting threads
You can read more about the work that Plaza Jewish Community Chapel does here.
And find more doors with host Dan Antion here at Thursday Doors.
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- - October 9, 2023






so touching, Kerfe… I know that this is what I seek for myself… Beautifully rendered and shared ~ I really enjoyed reading these poems 🙂
Much love,
David
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Thanks David. I’m only just realizing how some people make you feel you belong just by acknowledging you, how important that is. It’s a gift.
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Hi, Kerfe!
I just wanna let you know that this week’s W3 prompt, hosted by our hilariously talented Lesley Scoble is now live:
Enjoy!
Much love,
David
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Thanks David.
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*hug*
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I like how these often work well for doors.
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I really like the mission that guides this Community Chapel. The services you attended sound like they added meaning to the lives sadly taken. The building is beautiful, as are your poems. Kerfe.
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Thanks Dan. I never thought about funerals as being profit-making enterprises. This seems much more correct in spirit.
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It truly does.
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Touching and beautifully crafted.❤️🙏🏼
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Thanks Melissa.
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You’re welcome!❤️
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Those windows are so intriguing. Nicely written.
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Thanks VJ. I would love to know more about the artist.
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Yes. Me too
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I really love the idea of this center as outlined in its mission statement. The building, windows, and roof are interesting, too. I lovely memorial poem. Autumn harvest season does seem like a time of remembering.
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Thanks Merril. I was glad to discover the mission of the chapel. I’m always learning new things through my doors posts. And yes, autumn is a time to think of those we’ve lost. They seem closer somehow.
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You’re welcome, Kerfe.
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Touching story and wonderful verse to tie it all together. To community and shared beauty.
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Yes, both necessary. Thanks.
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I love the geometry and windows too. The architecture of this building says so much. What a treasure, on so many levels.
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It is! Thanks D. Some days it seems humanity is not so bad after all.
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At first glance, I probably would have walked on by the building. But as I look at it for awhile, it becomes intriguing. Thanks for posting, Kerfe.
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Thanks Teagan. Before I was looking for doors I was pretty oblivious to my surroundings, but the window and the open circles on this building really caught my eye.
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Exceptionally moving, Kerfe ❤️ Both poems are beautiful.
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Thanks Lesley.
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I read this this morning and left a comment via my phone… and of course it didn’t go through! I think the slant rhymes are really interesting – and hard to do! And of course you made it flow and seem so easy!! Thanks tons for joining in!! ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thanks and you’re welcome! I’m sure I’ll fit in a few more. I really do like slant rhyming, so this was a good prompt for me.
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Thank you for this inspiring post, Kerfe! I loved every bit of it.
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Thanks Liz.
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You’re welcome, Kerfe.
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an awesome tribute Kerfe … I can see why those windows, the symmetry and the ethos attract!
This is true spirituality that appeals on every level .. sorry for your losses.
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Thanks Kate. Death is a part of life we can’t escape. But it’s always hard to lose a good soul.
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Great doors and equally great poem. 😊
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Thanks Gwen.
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A thoughtful and moving post. I love the kindness that this organization exudes.
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Thanks Claudia. Me too.
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Kerfe! Beautiful photos of the buildings and I love both poems. Are those modern stained-glass windows?
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Thanks Miriam. I couldn’t find any history of the building or windows, but they’ve been there as long as I’ve lived in the neighborhood which is almost 50 years.
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They look unusual. I wish it makes it to the history stories.
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“the harvest of your essence is present” – what a line, and such a great way to describe the impact a beloved community member has.
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Thank you!
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Inspiring thoughts Kerfe. Our Lord is always there for us. Lovely Thursday door.
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Thanks Kamal. We all need kindness and support.
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Always welcome dear Kerfe and yes I completely agree with you 💖🙏🏻🤗
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Kerfe, I’ve been an advocate for universal health care for a long time, but after reading your post, the idea of universal death care comes to mind. Every person leaving this world deserves a decent laying to rest however the deceased wanted it to be. With the color of the brick and the unity of the window designs, it emanates a living spirit to me. Would love to see what the building interior looks like.
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I agree Jade. I hadn’t thought of it before, but everyone deserves dignity in death, whether they have resources or not. Death, like medical care, should not be a profit-making enterprise.
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This community chapel makes total sense to me. I love how you combined the prompts. This is a lovely building. The windows speak volumes! It’s a pleasing design. Geometric shapes are comforting. Your poetry is so thought provoking. I love the haiku at the end—the harvest of a life well lived.
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Thanks Colleen. The monetary cost of death (added to the stress cost) is something I really hadn’t thought about before. I noticed a lot of people combined both prompts with “harvest” this week.
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Autumn is a time of honoring the dead in many cultures. I think that link to the season is still with many of us.
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Yes, I agree.
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Hi Kerfe, a wonderful poem. The doors and information are interesting. Thank you for sharing it 💕
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Thanks Robbie and you’re welcome.
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People need to be careful with the seeds they leave behind, the future generations will be ones to harvest. Your poem is beautiful.
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Thank you Elizabeth. Yes, it’s something we should all be thinking about.
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The invisible gifts endure beyond the now of existence…so much power and peace in your poem, Kerfe. Brilliant!!
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Thanks Suzette. And thanks for the prompt.
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My pleasure, Kerfe! Cheers.
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Such be͏a͏uti͏ful words tha͏t re͏sona͏te͏ de͏e͏ply! Your e͏loque͏nt e͏xpre͏ssi͏on ca͏pture͏s the͏ e͏sse͏nce͏ of conne͏cti͏on a͏nd communi͏ty tha͏t tra͏nsce͏nds ti͏me͏. It’s a͏ te͏sta͏me͏nt to the͏ la͏sti͏ng i͏mpa͏ct you’ve͏ ha͏d on those͏ fortuna͏te͏ e͏nough to know you. Your le͏ga͏cy of ope͏n-he͏a͏rte͏dne͏ss a͏nd i͏nclusi͏vi͏ty i͏s a͏n i͏nspi͏ra͏ti͏on to us a͏ll, re͏mi͏ndi͏ng us of the͏ i͏mporta͏nce͏ of foste͏ri͏ng me͏a͏ni͏ngful conne͏cti͏ons a͏nd le͏a͏vi͏ng a͏ posi͏ti͏ve͏ ma͏rk on the͏ world. Tha͏nk you for sha͏ri͏ng the͏se͏ he͏a͏rtfe͏lt se͏nti͏me͏nts. 🌟👍👌👏😊
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Thank you for your wonderful words Pankaj. (K)
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A beautiful dedication to a place with a generous and comforting mission, Kerfe. The poems are wonderfully heartfelt. Thanks for sharing.
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Thanks Diana. Sometimes things we think we know surprise us–in a good way.
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That’s always a pleasure.
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