Points of View (Thursday Doors)

my relationship
with my indoor plants varies–
it always depends

I can’t figure it
out—some thrive, some don’t–some will
not commit themselves

I envy back yards,
roof decks, terraces—subject
to the weather’s whims

the burden of care
is shared–along with a sun
for lazy basking

The view out my front windows is of roofs. I’m on the 8th floor and across the street are a row of brownstones. Some of them have roof gardens. Before this year, I never saw anyone using most of them, but for some reason their current residents have spruced them up and are often outside.

I admit I’m envious. Some larger building have roof decks–I lived in one briefly–but mine does not.

This one used to look particularly sad, but it now has lights and plants and is in constant use. It’s a rental building, with a terrace on the back side that belongs to a different apartment. Both have tiny one bedrooms on the floor below, with a staircase to the roof.

This is a private house which may or may not rent out a garden apartment–I couldn’t really tell from what I found out online. It last sold in 2016 for 8 million dollars, and looks like it was completely renovated at that time. I guess that’s why it looks like the fanciest of the three.

Another rental building, which also appears to have a terrace at the back. I couldn’t find any floor plans but it supposedly has 10 units, so the back may also belong to a different apartment.

Looking out the window the other direction is a deck that gets used all the time. It has a flat screen TV on the wall for evening viewing. They haven’t had much chance to use it yet this year, but maybe the rain will stop soon. This brownstone is a co-op. There’s a 2 bedroom apartment on the floor below, and the apartment with its deck last sold for $1,700,000 in 2020. I had always thought it was a communal deck used by the entire building, so that was an interesting thing to discover.

I chose to focus on rooftops this week because Dan Antion, who hosts Thursday Doors, also hosts a weekly photo prompt, and this week’s theme is Photos taken from above.

My poem is for Selma’s Tanka Tuesday Prompt this week to write a rensaku about relationships.

And a couple more views from above for CFFC, taken from the second row from the top of the stadium.

We went to Pride Night last week at Citi Field. Mr. and Mrs. Met were of course in attendance. The Mets lost (something they seem to be doing with regularity lately), but the place was packed and everyone had a great time, singing and dancing at the slightest provocation. Long after Francisco Lindor stepped up to the plate, the entire stadium was still singing “My Girl”.

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53 responses to “Points of View (Thursday Doors)”

  1. brazannemuse's avatar
    brazannemuse says :

    Great post, and great take on relationship with plants 💞. I always love the idea of a terrace roof garden…. They look great, very pricey though…. We live in a City, but it’s a seafront city. The apartments along the front have amazing roof terraces, the living space is smaller than I have here but the cost is double!

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  2. Violet Lentz's avatar
    Violet Lentz says :

    I love your take on the prompt! I have a cannot be trusted relationship with plants- but that does not keep me from enjoying their beauty! This was a fun walk through a piece of your life. Thank you!

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  3. Suzette Benjamin's avatar
    Suzette Benjamin says :

    Thank you for this beautiful tour and view of the rooftops gardens and buildings in your area. I love to see rooftop gardens and these were great ones.

    I am not a fan of living too high up but I do enjoy overhead views. Great photos of the stadium and field for CFFC.
    Great work incorporating three prompts…amazing! Thank you Kerfe!

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  4. robbiesinspiration's avatar
    robbiesinspiration says :

    Hi Kerfe, a lovely poem and the pictures and information is really interesting to read.

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  5. merrildsmith's avatar
    merrildsmith says :

    We never have indoor plants because of the cats. My mom lived in a coop in Philadelphia for a number of years, and there was rooftop garden. Other residents grew flowers, herbs, etc. A couple years, we watched fireworks from there.

    Your Mets Pride Night sounds fun!

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    • memadtwo's avatar
      memadtwo says :

      Thanks Merril, it was. The Mets really embrace Pride Night, and it’s always a lift to the spirits.

      My daughter is thinking of getting a cat, and she told me she would have to get rid of most of her plants if she did. She does a lot of indoor gardening, which I know she would miss.

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  6. Teresa 何 Robeson's avatar
    Teresa 何 Robeson says :

    How delightful! I love the looks of rooftop and patio gardens. I can relate to your poem. My husband is the gardener but I’m sort of clueless. LOL!

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  7. Dan Antion's avatar
    Dan Antion says :

    You did a great job hitting all the prompts. When I first saw the photos, I wondered if you were posting for CFFC as well as Thursday Doors. The roof top decks and gardens are so interesting. I love the ways people work to include nature in their non-natural environment. The addition of living things and colors always helps. We gave up on indoor plants years ago. They never did well. I like the line in your poem, “some will not commit themselves.” That’s how it felt. I love the view from Citi Field.

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    • memadtwo's avatar
      memadtwo says :

      Thanks Dan. The plants seem to have their own mind. But I enjoy having them around. And I like watching the roof decks come to life in the spring.
      I took many photos trying to capture Mr. and Mrs. Met and was pleased to finally succeed!

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  8. Liz Gauffreau's avatar
    Liz Gauffreau says :

    I enjoyed your poem and the roof-top gardens. Then The Temptations came along and stole the show!

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  9. Cindy Georgakas's avatar
    Cindy Georgakas says :

    I so love the rooftops in NY and you have some spectacular views there, Kerf!
    Love your poem and so relatable. I ended up with some great fakes and am considering more of those. It’s wild how some thrive and some go to the dogs. 2 of my tomato plants got sucked up by the gophers. Ugh 😩

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  10. JJJ Interactive Books's avatar
    JJJ Interactive Books says :

    I love the roof-top gardens, but the housing prices in Queens!!! I guess it’s happening everywhere…

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  11. SelmaMartin's avatar
    SelmaMartin says :

    A relationship, good or bad, is still a relationship. I adore it that yours talks about a relationship with your plants. Adore this. And the roof viewing is an added bonus. Sending a freshly baked batch of gooey cookies, K. I hope you’re not allergic to them. Thanks. Xoxo

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  12. D. Wallace Peach's avatar
    D. Wallace Peach says :

    Those rooftop gardens are a bit of magic, aren’t they? If I lived in a city, I’d want one (fat chance I could afford one, though). I don’t have many indoor plants either, Kerfe. It’s hit of miss for sure. A fun post and poem I could relate to.

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  13. Teagan Riordain Geneviene's avatar
    Teagan Riordain Geneviene says :

    Kerfe, you have a fantastic view! Great job on the photos.

    Plants see me coming and pretty much just keel over, inside or outside. Even the 6 desert willows that were a large part of the reason I bought this house six years ago all got some kind of blight and died within a year of the day I moved in. At this point I think I’d probably kill a plastic plant. LOL. Hugs.

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    • memadtwo's avatar
      memadtwo says :

      Thanks Teagn. The most important element in a living space for me is light, which usually means at least some kind of view.

      My success with plants is unpredictable. But I keep trying.

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  14. Rajani Radhakrishnan's avatar
    Rajani Radhakrishnan says :

    Love the poem, K and it completely resonates…I can’t manage to keep a plant alive, even succulents! I prefer to just admire other people’s gardens! Kudos to those who maintain balconies and roof tops and even grow veggies there!

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    • memadtwo's avatar
      memadtwo says :

      Thanks Rajani. I can’t say I have a green thumb, but my watchful neglect manages to keep enough plants alive to add some green to my living space. It’s interesting to me that some apartments have made my plants more happy than others, even if the light is similar.

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  15. I. J. Khanewala's avatar
    I. J. Khanewala says :

    Nice theme. Your photos of roof gardens reminds me that I need to start looking for some plants for my terrace

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  16. Colleen Chesebro's avatar
    Colleen Chesebro says :

    Kerfe, those rooftop gardens are amazing! What a great place to barbecue and just hang out and read a book. I enjoyed your senryu series. My oldest step-daughter used to tell me not to give her plants. One time, I gave her a fake plant. The next time I saw her, she said, “No more plants. I killed the fake one, too.” 😂

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    • memadtwo's avatar
      memadtwo says :

      That’s funny Colleen, Teagan said in her comment she kills fake plants also! I’ve learned that they prefer attentive neglect to hovering, at least from me. But sometimes I don’t know what the problem is.

      Yes, in my next life I’ll have a roof garden or a terrace. But at least for now I can enjoy them vicariously.

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  17. willowdot21's avatar
    willowdot21 says :

    I do like this post I enjoyed it from the beginning to the end .💜💜💜

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  18. Prior...'s avatar
    Prior... says :

    I used to leave your blog with an art boost – and now I still do – but it has that New York city feel and so much more – and today I really enjoyed seeing the brownstones and rooftop gardens.

    also, that apartment that sold for 1.7 million in 2020 is probably worth triple now with all of the crazy inflation – …💛

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    • memadtwo's avatar
      memadtwo says :

      Thanks Yvette. I keep meaning to post more art here, but I’m having a lot of trouble getting things done these days. In the meantime, I try to at least keep up with Thursday Doors.

      I suspect you’re right about that apartment costing more now. In 2020 the prices were about rock bottom in the city due to the pandemic. I don’t think it would be triple–rents have gone up much much more than the cost to buy–but it would definitely be well over 2 million. The real estate market for buying and selling is pretty sluggish at the moment, whereas it’s really hard to even find a rental, let alone an affordable one.

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      • Prior...'s avatar
        Prior... says :

        oh that make sense that rents are high and not necessarily the real estate
        — and I would not worry too much about posting more art here = because our life has that ebb and flow and I could just tell that you were meandering a different path for now – and so I would say go with it and let it flow naturally (unless you get more stuff done and want to share more art) but I think we do have to let our blog approach have some room as we are not always in the same mode (and maybe even more so for those who write, paint, etc.) ya know?
        🙂 x

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  19. Smitha V's avatar
    Smitha V says :

    Hi Kerfe, A fun poem on your relationship with plants. I have a similar relationship with them and can’t seem to understand why some thrive and the others wither. I love plants and flowers. Roof terraces were a common sight in Bangladesh. I loved how the people there covered their terraces with potted plants. Some looked like mini-forests.

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